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This is definitely therapy stuff, and I hope for both your sakes that he will come around; it doesn't sound like your husband is a creep or a jerk, just dealing with some serious stuff (and I hope that's true). I've posted nearly 900 answers here, and in nearly all of them I've tried to recast the problem as something other than a problem. Usually problems are just stubbornly-held perspectives that needed to pivot a bit. However this is a problem. But let me nonetheless try to reframe the perspective a bit differently. Because I think it's something other than the surface issues.

I recommend that you start over-reacting, well, realy reacting appropriately to his appalling behavior. Love the idea of plastering the house in NO. Maybe make a big NO sign and hold it up. Most of all, tell him that he is coercing you, and you Will. Not. Tolerate. It. You sound like a reasonable person, and you are assuming that he is a reasonable person. But his behavior is completely unreasonable. Assess the rest of your marriage and see if this is a theme. I have kept saying “no” to his requests to try the "hot wife" lifestyle, and I tried my best to explain why I just couldn’t agree to having sexual relations with a stranger: I had never had a one-night-stand in my life, and had never been sexual with someone I didn’t know very well. After several rounds of that I added that his asking was making me feel disrespected, inadequate in the bedroom, and was damaging our marriage.I feel desperate for our children. I do not know what to think or do concerning Anita. She is a beautiful woman whom I have known since I met my wife. I have never thought romantically about her. Would it be wise to talk about it with her? You’re the only person who knows the real me and continues to love me anyway. You know my faults and you know my weaknesses, but you still choose to love me. Thank you for being with me through everything. I love you very much. So, was all the cheating in his past relationships from when he watched his girlfriends have sex with strangers in front of him so he could get his jollies off? I hooked up with a buddy of mine’s mom. Turns out she was into younger dudes, so we did it on her washing machine in the basement and then she made me swear never to tell anyone.” — Richard, 21

So now, I'm sitting here at work with a hard on thinking about tonight with my wife...good Lord how to women do that to us men? That next morning during breakfast the husband looked at his wife, obviously hungover, and asked, "So... what time did you get in last night?" When I am in your presence, my heart is full and I feel stronger, wiser, and more confident. You inspire me to reach deep into my heart and love you with all of the passion I have. Sure, I suppose you could tell him no one more time and see if it helps, but do you really want to be with the guy who needed to be told no one hundred and one times?I would have one more come-to-Jesus with him about this, where you tell him that not only is this totally something you will not do, but that you also add that his continuing to NOT SHUT UP AND DROP IT is also becoming its own problem, and that he needs to get it through his head that THIS IS NOT HAPPENING - and that this is his final warning, and if he asks you ONE more time about this AFTER this, that you're going to move out. Period. I think you need to tell him that besides you simply not liking the idea, it's very likely to implode your marriage. So either way- if you do it, or if he keeps hounding you- your marriage is destroyed. If he truly feels like he can't live without this, then your marriage is destroyed too. Once you start sharing messages of love with your wife, you’ll see how much she appreciates these small gestures. When I see you, I wonder what I did to deserve such a wonderful gift in my life. You are a true blessing, and I want you to know that I am thinking about you with love and gratitude.

I keep myself busy with things to do, but every time I stop for a minute, I still think of you. I miss you my darling and can’t wait until we are cuddled up together again. Even if in his mind he's just asking for something kinky, so its not cheating, he's ignoring your boundaries... keeps pushing even though it makes you upset. So he's an idiot: even if you were someone who might be into that sort of thing, how on earth could you think of trying something this potentially emotionally risky when he won't listen to you? I often think about the day I asked you to marry me and you said, “Yes.” It was the best day of my life — except for all of the days since then that we’ve spent together.People get pretty interesting about sex. It's my belief that some sexual desires get kind of fixated, but he might be quite satisfied with other sexual excitement, like costumes, toys, you being more or less dominant than usual, different location, whatever. If you want, and only if you want, perhaps some sexual diversions would be a pleasant distraction. No matter what the thing is, if it’s sexual, it’s almost certain someone in the world will be weirded out enough to get judgmental about it. Even if I have gone silent for long, it doesn’t mean you have stopped being the one for me. I am keeping my word, and I will always be there for you when you need me and I will love you until the end of time. My ex showed up at my apartment in tears, crying her eyes out about how her husband cheated on her. She wanted revenge. So she got it with me.” — Shane, 29 Best case scenario, your therapist helps you get your husband into that office with you and dealing with some stuff. Worst case, you've got someone's understanding and support while you decide what to do next.

He forfeited his right to be resentful about your boundaries by not being honest with you about his fantasies early on and giving you both an opportunity to figure out if this would be a dealbreaker. You’re more than just a special person. You’re my lover, my best friend, my inspiration, and motivation. I love you so much more than you will ever know. Well, you have a short memory," says his wife, "Don't you remember about three months ago when we broke down, we received help from a stranger? I think you should help him out. You should be ashamed of yourself!"

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His is an unusual request--a seriously HUGE ask--and your reasons for refusing it are sound. But even if he were asking for something minor, and your reasons for refusing were sort of silly (say, he wanted you to wear a red negligee but you hate red because you think it's wrong for your skintone), a respectful husband would know when to drop it.